If you met the girl in person first, and you didn't initiate anything yet, here's what you do.
Wait a couple hours then text her something short and sweet.
"It was nice meeting you today :)"
DON'T TRY SETTING UP ANYTHING YET.
Don't be afraid to let the texting end for a while.
You'll wait 2 days then text her again, at this point you can joke around and build attraction.
Wait 2-3 more days then arrange a date.
This will send her the message that you're a busy guy that doesn't have time for girls that aren't serious about you.
If you constantly text her she'll get the impression that whatever she does you'll always be there waiting. You need to send her the underlying message that you won't wait around. This will move things along quicker and shut out the possibility of the friend zone.
If you haven't met this person face to face yet, here's what you should do --
1 - follow her texting patterns.
This means if she sends you something short and sweet, you send something short and sweet. If she sends something longer, you may also send something longer. If she doesn't text you back, YOU WAIT. You wait and you wait. Anxiety works against you I promise.
If she doesn't text you back in a day or two, you will send her something creative. Avoid "What's up?" and "hey, what are you up to?" Those are the texts that she's getting from every other guy. You want to pop out of the crowd by sending something like "Hey, _____. I haven't heard from you in a while. It's obvious that you've been abducted by aliens. Text me back when they release you ;)" or something along those lines. Just be creative and I assure you that she'll text you back. If she doesn't then you're either in the friend zone or you've ruined it by saying something wrong earlier.
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