Texting is much different than talking in person. In person you can rely on things like eye contact, vocal tones, and body language to attract women. When you text the only things you have are words…or so you think.
Most guys make the same 3 mistakes
1 - accidentally shooting for the friend zone
You try and make a connection with this girl when all you're doing is making her like your personality. Time is not on your side. The longer you wait to initiate something the worse of a chance you have to actually get something rollin.
2 - The "out of my league" mentality. 9/10 guys think this way when they talk to a beautiful girl. If you think that she's better than you then it's going to seep out of your words. You're more likely to ramble and she's more likely to lose interest in you.
You need to pretend that you're the only guy talking to this girl, and that SHE is lucky to be talking to YOU.
3 - Confidence over arrogance. Confidence is a good thing, but bragging and telling her about all of your achievements will make her think one of two things, or both. 1 - she's not up to par with you, making her feel inadequate and unappealing to you, this is a no no. This will make her stop talking to you or cling to you as a role model, you don't want either, trust me.
2 - that you're an asshole that thinks way too highly of yourself.
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